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Mary & Martha Acrylic on Canvas 30" x 40" 29/08/15 4.5 hours |
This piece of Mary & Martha
(& Lazarus) was inspired by a couple of pieces which I adapted from, most
notably the painting by Nathan Greene, with some edits to illustrate food preparation. The guy in the background is a depiction
of their brother, Lazarus, whom Jesus had brought back to life earlier.
I picked this story when I asked
one of my close friends for her favourite bible story, and she shared this tale
with me, which I found to be very meaningful. It came as a timely reminder to
me. As a very performance-oriented and result driven person (especially in the
workplace), I am often too caught up with worrying about ensuring that work targets and deliverables are met, rather than properly
focusing on God’s wisdom. This story illustrates the futility of worry and reiterates the importance of learning His word and spending time with Him,
which is more valued than dealing efficiently with the hustles and
bustles of everyday life. It also illustrates our limited understanding when we
go to God demanding for help in our daily life, and His eternal wisdom when He
patiently guides us towards a greater spiritual understanding.
Luke 10:38-42 NIV sets out the
tale as follows:
“At the Home of Martha and Mary
As Jesus and his disciples were on their way, he came to a village
where a woman named Martha opened her home to him. She had a sister called
Mary, who sat at the Lord’s feet listening to what he said. But Martha
was distracted by all the preparations that had to be made. She came to him
and asked, “Lord, don’t you care that my sister has left me to do the
work by myself? Tell her to help me!”
“Martha, Martha,” the Lord answered, “you are worried and upset
about many things, but few things are needed—or indeed only one.
Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from
her.””
As background, the accounts of
Martha and Mary had also been set out in 2 other accounts by John. John records
the miracle of how Lazarus, their brother, was raised from the dead by Jesus
(John 11), as well as the extravagant love of Mary, who had anointed the feet of
Jesus with very costly oil at John’s recount of the same dinner (John 12:1-11). This illustrates how the entire family had no lack of love for Jesus. In
John’s account, Mary was so humble, convicted and dedicated to Jesus and His
teachings that no expense or personal act was too great or demanding for her to
honor her Savior. She was not being lazy when she chose to sit at Jesus’ feet
instead of helping her sister; this was an act of love to God.
Yet this was a very different
perspectives from that of Martha. While Martha loved Jesus deeply, it was clear
that Martha was “distracted by all the
preparations”, and she was so upset that she called out to the Lord for
help. Her indignation was clear; she asked the Lord doesn’t He care that Mary had left her to prepare the meal
by herself, and insisted that Jesus ask
her sister to help her out. Martha didn’t suggest that Jesus ask Mary
to help her; she told Him directly to “tell her to help me.” Here, we see that
Martha has the clear goal of preparing dinner for her guests, which would be
the good hospitable practice at that time. This is in itself is of course not a
bad goal. Martha clearly thought that this was the right thing to do. She
expected Jesus to naturally agree with her.
But in response to her indignant
demands, Jesus had gently responded as follows:
“Martha, Martha,” the
Lord answered, “you are worried and upset about many things, but few
things are needed—or indeed only one. Mary has chosen what is better,
and it will not be taken away from her.”
For instead of focusing on
preparing the meal, to address a physical
need (and a possible social one, as they were hosts), Mary had chosen
to sit at the feet of the Lord to listen to what He said. This led to her spiritual growth and understanding.
For during the periods that Martha had spent worrying about the preparations
for dinner, she could have had missed out on key aspects on God’s eternal
wisdom. As such, while Martha may have been doing a good thing, Mary had chosen
what was better – she chose to
accumulate spiritual wisdom, truth and life. As John 6:63 ESV states, “…The words that I have spoken to you are spirit
and life”. Scripture further provides that “…Man shall not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from
the mouth of God” (Luke 4:4 NIV).
Further, as to pleasing God, the
bible states that “I could have no
greater joy than to hear that my children are following the truth”
(3 John 1:4 NLT). Jesus would want
nothing more than for us to walk in His truth and righteousness. But in order
to follow the truth, we must first be well-acquainted with the truth.
Oftentimes, we don’t spend enough time grapsing God’s truth and wisdom, and are
content to survive with a shallow and superficial understanding while we worry
and focus on the busy demands of our world. But is this the right approach?
Jesus tells us our highest priority in life should be to “seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness …”
(Matthew 6:33 ESV). The bible also provides: “Do not work for food that spoils, but for food that endures to
eternal life, which the Son of Man will give you. For on him God the Father
has placed his seal of approval.” (John 6:27 NIV).
Did Jesus or his disciples need
the food prepare by Martha? Clearly not; Jesus could have provided for food
Himself if required. As such, Martha’s reliance on her own strength, her strong
demands and her indignance to the lack of support shows a limited understanding
of who Jesus is and what pleases Him. She had worried unnecessarily, over
things of this world that did not matter. For Matthew 6:25 NIV tells us “…do not worry about your life, what
you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life
more than food, and the body more than clothes?”
By choosing God’s wisdom over
preparing food for her guests, Mary had chosen something that would not be
taken away from her. For she had
chosen what is eternal – God’s word, which stands firm in the heavens
(Psalm 119:89). Martha's life, however, was taken up with many
secondary things which were not needed, but her key need was that which Mary
acknowledged: the words of Jesus that give eternal life (John 6:68).